Trimming Insecurities

2025 • Short Film • Drama

A young man's visit to the barbershop becomes more than a routine haircut as he begins to confront the insecurities shaping how he sees himself.

Runtime: 12 min | Available on YouTube

the first rep

Trimming Insecurities was more than a short film - it was my first real step as a filmmaker. Here's a look at where I was, what I didn't know yet, and the rep I needed.

WHERE I WAS

This was the first short film I wrote and directed from beginning to end. I made it during my senior year of college, at a point where I was still learning what it actually meant to tell a story through film.

WHAT I DIDN'T KNOW YET

Looking back now, I can see that I didn't yet have a strong understanding of things like subtext, character depth, or how to build a story around a deeper emotional idea.

THE REP I NEEDED

At the time, I was focused on something much simpler: Could I take an idea and actually make a film? Could I write it, plan it, cast it, direct it, edit it, and finish it? That was the rep I needed.

WHERE THE IDEA STARTED

The original idea came from a quote that stuck with me: “If you hang around the barbershop long enough, sooner or later you’re going to get a haircut.”. - Denzel Washington

A man with a beard and black graphic t-shirt is being interviewed or filmed in a laboratory or workshop. A microphone with a furry windscreen is positioned above his head, directed towards his face. The background includes white tiled walls, various bottles, and small decorative figures or toys near a sink and electrical conduits.
Two young men filming with a professional camera on a city street during the day.

What I took from that was the idea of consistency. If you keep showing up, keep working, and keep putting yourself in the right environment, eventually something happens. That thought gave me the starting point for Trimming Insecurities. At the time, I wasn’t thinking deeply about metaphor, theme, or subtext. I just knew I had an idea I wanted to turn into a film.

Learning by making

Two men with beards and short hair standing outside, separated by a vertical line; one is holding a vintage camera and wears a camera strap around his neck, the other gestures with his hand near his face. Background includes blurred trees and cars.
Three men in a barbershop, two standing and one seated in a barber chair. The man in the barber chair is looking up at the man on the left, who appears to be giving a haircut consultation. The third man on the right is standing and listening. The scene is in a modern barbershop with mirrors, barber tools, and hair products on the counter.

MORE THAN A YEAR

  • The project moved through pre-production, production, and post-production over the course of more than a year.

The process of making Trimming Insecurities ended up teaching me more than the story itself.

LOCATION LOST

  • About a week before filming, we lost our original location and had to adapt quickly.

3 DAYS BECAME 1

  • What was supposed to be a three-day shoot eventually became one long production day.

THE TAKEAWAY

  • That experience showed me how much filmmaking depends on preparation, patience, communication, problem-solving, and being able to adapt when the plan changes. A lot of those lessons only became clear because I actually went through the process.

PREMIERE

FROM FINISHED FILM TO

July 19, 2025 • Studio on Market • Wilmington

Finishing the film was one milestone. Putting it in front of an audience was another.

On July 19, 2025, I held a premiere for Trimming Insecurities at Studio on Market in Wilmington.

For more than a year, the film had existed as an idea, a script, footage, edits, problems to solve, and something I was constantly trying to finish.

Then suddenly, people were sitting in a room watching it.

That experience changed the way I thought about completing a project. A film doesn't only become real because you export the final cut. There's another moment when you release it, share it, and allow other people to experience something that once only existed in your head.

Holding that premiere gave the entire process a finish line

I could actually see.

Group of people standing outside a storefront with a sign, smiling and posing for the photo.
Man with beard and wearing a gray cap, white t-shirt, beige shorts, and sneakers standing in front of a table with marketing merchandise including cameras, cups, and flasks, inside a retail or event space.
Two men are arm wrestling and smiling at each other in an indoor setting.
Two men smiling at a booth that displays black and white merchandise such as cameras, cups, and bags with a large black 'M' logo. One man is wearing a black shirt and gray shorts, the other a white shirt, gray cap, and beige shorts. The booth has a black table and a background with a black and white 'M' logo.

WHAT I SEE NOW

When I look back at Trimming Insecurities now, I can see its limitations. The story isn't as layered as the stories I want to tell today, and there are choices I would approach differently. But that's also why I don't want to hide the film. It gives me a reference point.

It shows me what I understood then, what I didn't understand yet, and how much more intentional I've become about story since.

SEE WHAT CAME NEXT

WHAT ARE YOU?

The next step in my growth as a writer/director